Wanting to have a baby and not being able to can become an overwhelming, painful, and deeply isolating experience. Many people face months—or even years—of failed attempts without knowing when it’s the right time to seek professional help. This question is more common than you might think: How long should I wait before seeing a fertility specialist?
The answer can change everything.
In this article, we’ll clearly explain when it’s time to take action, why time is a key factor in fertility, and what real solutions exist to achieve the pregnancy you long for.
Understanding the Natural Cycle: How Long Is “Normal” to Try?
In general terms, if you are under 35 years old and have been having unprotected sex for a year without getting pregnant, this is considered a possible difficulty in conceiving. In that case, it is recommended to visit an assisted reproduction specialist for a thorough evaluation.
On the other hand, if you are 35 or older, the waiting time is reduced to 6 months. That’s because from that age, ovarian reserve begins to decline more rapidly, and delaying a diagnosis can lower your chances of getting pregnant with your own eggs.
And if you are over 40, the ideal scenario is not to wait: see a specialist as soon as you decide to try to have a baby.
Why Not Wait Too Long?
Time is a decisive factor in fertility—especially when talking about female reproductive health. The quality and quantity of eggs decreases over the years, and many infertility-related conditions don’t show visible symptoms until pregnancy doesn’t happen.
Seeking help in time can be the difference between achieving pregnancy with simpler treatments or needing to turn to more advanced options—or even egg donation.
Additionally, many people lose valuable years trying home remedies, supplements, or non-medical advice, while their biological clock keeps ticking. At Ingenes, we know that every month counts.
What Factors Might Be Interfering with Pregnancy?
There are many reasons pregnancy may not happen, even if everything seems fine on the surface. Some of the most common causes include:
In women:
- Low ovarian reserve or ovarian aging
- Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS)
- Endometriosis
- Blocked or damaged fallopian tubes
- Hormonal or ovulatory disorders
- Autoimmune diseases
- Uterine issues (such as fibroids or malformations)
- History of miscarriages or ectopic pregnancies
In men:
- Low sperm count or poor sperm quality
- Varicocele
- Retrograde ejaculation
- Hormonal imbalances
- Infections or testicular diseases
- Damage from chemotherapy, radiation, or exposure to toxins
In both:
- Lifestyle (stress, smoking, obesity)
- Advanced age
- Unexplained causes (infertility with no clear diagnosis)
What Happens at the First Fertility Consultation?
At Ingenes, we understand that taking this step can bring anxiety and uncertainty. That’s why our first consultation is a chance to answer all your questions, understand your case from the ground up, and start outlining a plan.
During this consultation:
- A complete medical evaluation is performed
- An initial fertility study is requested for each partner
- Your reproductive and general health history is reviewed
- Your real options are explained clearly and empathetically
Our goal is not just to diagnose, but to help you confidently decide what the next step should be.
What If I Already Tried Treatments That Didn’t Work?
It’s very common for people to come to Ingenes after undergoing failed treatments at other centers. In these cases, a second expert opinion and the right approach can make a big difference.
We have over 20 years of experience, cutting-edge technology like IVF MORE®, and personalized programs with money-back plans if pregnancy isn’t achieved. This makes us the most trusted institute with the highest success rate in Latin America.
What Options Are Available to Achieve Pregnancy?
Depending on your diagnosis and needs, you can access treatments such as:
- Ovarian stimulation
- Intrauterine insemination (IUI)
- In vitro fertilization (IVF)
- IVF MORE® (our most advanced technique for complex cases or low ovarian reserve)
- Egg or sperm donation
- Egg vitrification
- Preimplantation genetic diagnosis
- Psychological support and emotional accompaniment throughout the entire process
At Ingenes, we work with a multidisciplinary team to care for you from a comprehensive and human perspective.
What If I’m a Single Woman or Part of an LGBT+ Couple?
It’s also important to know that you don’t need a partner to book a consultation. If you’re a single woman or part of a same-sex couple, you have real options to have a baby. At Ingenes, you’ll find a safe, inclusive, and supportive space to guide you along whichever path you choose.
Why Is Ingenes the Right Place to Take This Step?
- More than 50,000 babies born through our programs
- 20 years of experience in fertility and genetics
- Up to 96% success rate in assisted reproduction programs
- Exclusive technology like IVF MORE® for low ovarian reserve cases
- Money-back plans in case pregnancy isn’t achieved
- Emotional and psychological support every step of the way
You’re Not Alone, and It’s Not Too Late
The frustration, pain, and uncertainty that come with not being able to get pregnant shouldn’t be faced in silence or fear. Seeking help isn’t giving up—it’s taking control.
At Ingenes, we’re ready to support you from the very first moment, with clear information, accurate diagnosis, and a treatment plan that brings you closer to your baby.
If you’ve been trying to get pregnant for months without success—no matter your age—this is the time to schedule your first consultation. Today could be the first day of the journey that finally leads you to hold what you’ve wanted most: your baby.